Loneliness

Everybody feels lonely sometimes. But only few of us are aware how important this feeling was for our ancestors - and that our modern world can turn it into something that really hurts us. Why do we feel this way and what can we do about it?
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www.amazon.com/Emotional-First-Aid-Rejection-Everyday/dp/0142181072/
'Loneliness' by John Cacioppo & William Patrick
www.amazon.com/Loneliness-Human-Nature-Social-Connection/dp/0393335283/

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  1. Kurzgesagt – In a Nutshell

    Kurzgesagt – In a Nutshell

    Jaar geleden

    We designed a poster on this topic as well. You can find it here: shop-us.kurzgesagt.org/collections/all-kurzgesagt-products/products/in-a-nutshell-loneliness-poster?variant=28928293503024

    • Iulia Earthchild

      Iulia Earthchild

      Uur geleden

      00000

    • AikAok2 Xmas

      AikAok2 Xmas

      2 dagen geleden

      Nice shosj

    • vishnu's piano

      vishnu's piano

      6 dagen geleden

      Thanks for this my mom has some of these things .... Now I can help

    • Faisal Mohammad

      Faisal Mohammad

      7 dagen geleden

      @Kurzgesagt you've done a great video and it was absolutely helpful. Keep making these kind of videos .

    • Miguel Rodriguez

      Miguel Rodriguez

      Maand geleden

      Thank you I really needed this

  2. Honza Pecháček

    Honza Pecháček

    2 uur geleden

    I think that wouldn't be lonely if i wouldn't be afraid to talk to people or in front of them..

  3. Val Set

    Val Set

    4 uur geleden

    "try to reach out and get professional help" *poverty has entered the chat*

  4. Joe C

    Joe C

    5 uur geleden

    I have been feeling lonely for a bit of a long time, to the point where this video talks about it being unhealthy and recently started playing DnD with my wife, a friend, and another. So that moment near the end really got me a happy tear.

  5. Cigo

    Cigo

    6 uur geleden

    im in 8th grade and i only have 1 friend. i lost most of them and i wake up to almost no notifications. most of the day i’m unhappy

  6. SIMONE CRIPPA

    SIMONE CRIPPA

    6 uur geleden

    This is just myself in a few years. The true problem is not that I have been hurted by anyone, it's just that I'm afraid of ruining the small relations I have. I'm sincerely worried that if I open myself to the others I won't be able to be myself, that I'll have to fake who I am to get along better with the others. I'd like to know if anyone feels the same way as I do.

  7. StipulateVenus

    StipulateVenus

    7 uur geleden

    "Loneliness epidemic" has a completely different meaning now :I

  8. Thu Noi

    Thu Noi

    8 uur geleden

    Ya Allah ampunilah dosa kami semua yang setuju like.

  9. Nghiệp Chấn Trần

    Nghiệp Chấn Trần

    8 uur geleden

    thank you i feel much better

  10. GachaGirl

    GachaGirl

    8 uur geleden

    I'm lonely most of the time.

  11. Svetlana Piperkova

    Svetlana Piperkova

    15 uur geleden

    Love this channel

    • GachaGirl

      GachaGirl

      8 uur geleden

      Same.

  12. Ryan Fadillah

    Ryan Fadillah

    15 uur geleden

    Science : Human Was Supposed to Live Together New World Order : Hold Up

  13. Saim Munir

    Saim Munir

    15 uur geleden

    Insecurity and overprotectiveness is killing me and my relationship with my best friend who recently made new friends

  14. Anderxon

    Anderxon

    15 uur geleden

    Thanks for making a video about me

  15. Mysta Kun

    Mysta Kun

    16 uur geleden

    I just want someones hand to hold

    • GachaGirl

      GachaGirl

      6 uur geleden

      @Mysta Kun your welcome

    • Mysta Kun

      Mysta Kun

      7 uur geleden

      @GachaGirl oh... thanks for the virtual hold TwT

    • GachaGirl

      GachaGirl

      7 uur geleden

      @Mysta Kun Ok

    • Mysta Kun

      Mysta Kun

      7 uur geleden

      @GachaGirl no no It doesnt work Holding my hand virtually will just make me want someones hand to hold more

    • GachaGirl

      GachaGirl

      8 uur geleden

      I will hold your hand virtually.

  16. Coal Sauce

    Coal Sauce

    19 uur geleden

    Im eternally grateful for this video. I feel like it helped me understand ehy ive just been feeling down. Thank you so much

  17. yeetus

    yeetus

    Dag geleden

    "can you risk being open and vulnerable again?" I'm never making that mistake again.

  18. Han Xuo

    Han Xuo

    Dag geleden

    Pongan más videos de porno es lo que más estusiasma.

  19. Toby D'Hooghe

    Toby D'Hooghe

    Dag geleden

    BBC NEWS

  20. Stephany Larios

    Stephany Larios

    Dag geleden

    well I am always alone but I will not allow myself to feel lonely

  21. Selina Gregorio

    Selina Gregorio

    Dag geleden

    TBH the loneliest people are the nicest people.

  22. Brice

    Brice

    Dag geleden

    I rarely feel lonely, but I also enjoy being alone. However, during this thanksgiving, it hit me I am lonely. And it's not because of family, but because of lack of an intimate relationship. In the past, I didn't really understand loneliness. I knew I had it but didn't know what it was, let alone change it.

  23. Elsif

    Elsif

    Dag geleden

    Fucking neoliberalism doomed generations

  24. Diego Serrano

    Diego Serrano

    2 dagen geleden

    Ive been living in Germany alone for a year and I identify with many things in the video I feel like i pay so much attention to people but I understand them less and i feel like i can't trust anyone my life has become a living hell and it feels like a spiral

  25. james logan

    james logan

    2 dagen geleden

    My ig is 26526_m. Hmu if you want to talk, maybe play league, pubg, just chat, or if we are close enough to each other, hang out irl.

  26. Seher Gönen

    Seher Gönen

    2 dagen geleden

    They don't want me around them. When I try to make new friends, they ignore me. I have friends but I couldn't talk them. I couldn't tell them anything. I am trying to solve my problems in my head. Of course I can solve them sometimes. But there are times I can't solve. I don't want to meet new people anymore. Because they are so selfish. I have changed two high school, and I am in college but I don't have any friend. WHY? I have known lots of people. But WHY AREN'T THEY MY FRIENDS?.... :(

  27. Ryan Soobe

    Ryan Soobe

    2 dagen geleden

    Covid: loneliness makes my job easier

  28. Andrew Crazy Games

    Andrew Crazy Games

    2 dagen geleden

    Ahh loneliness my best friend

  29. Bob Clarke

    Bob Clarke

    2 dagen geleden

    The fact that this was recommended makes it worst

  30. Razzy Animations

    Razzy Animations

    2 dagen geleden

    The feeling of loneliness is not lonely in itself

  31. KoNTroL

    KoNTroL

    2 dagen geleden

    Lol. Ill die alone and ill die whenever. I just dont care. I can be whatever....it isnt in the cards for us

  32. Christiaan De Klerk

    Christiaan De Klerk

    2 dagen geleden

    Ok

  33. Eugene

    Eugene

    3 dagen geleden

    Thank you!...

  34. Ocean Hu

    Ocean Hu

    3 dagen geleden

    I'm feeling much better down here 😢

  35. bunnygirl 101

    bunnygirl 101

    3 dagen geleden

    4:26 i have 7 friends 2 besties

    • Zidane Jannink

      Zidane Jannink

      3 dagen geleden

      nice hope yall are doing well :)

  36. zain aisami

    zain aisami

    3 dagen geleden

    Now I know why did this video take 1.5 years of work!!

  37. Nono Chen

    Nono Chen

    3 dagen geleden

    idk but sometimes when I look around and try to reach out, to have deep conversations about my struggles and thoughts, most of the people just are not concerning about same topics. The problems seem to never come to their lives so they cannot relate. There are a few people I am really thankful about that will help me with, but I don't feel good that I am always the one pouring out the problems on others. It makes me feel weak and that I need others more than they need me. They got their closest friends, but I am an ignorable part of their lives. I don't want that. So I choose to be "tough", but this isn't leading me anywhere. I feel the urge to reach out again.

  38. G G

    G G

    3 dagen geleden

    1.5 year

  39. US Gaming

    US Gaming

    3 dagen geleden

    Gamers belike : we are not alone we United together 😂

  40. Bean

    Bean

    3 dagen geleden

    do you guys think pigeons have feelings?

  41. Patrik Frajt

    Patrik Frajt

    3 dagen geleden

    I'm so lonely I want to die

    • 100 Ton

      100 Ton

      Dag geleden

      Dude you good? do you need a therapist?

  42. beaster 76

    beaster 76

    4 dagen geleden

    Im 14 years old and feel like a lonely depressed 25 year old trappes in a 14 year old body can i Get sone help please?!😭😭

    • beaster 76

      beaster 76

      2 dagen geleden

      @FOREST GUMP nothing im just too smart to be a teenager i just sanna Grow up but it taked ages like you chasing Jenny you want it you try to Get it you will Get it but after realy realy long time!

    • FOREST GUMP

      FOREST GUMP

      2 dagen geleden

      What happened bro.

  43. Pal Tan

    Pal Tan

    4 dagen geleden

    Yang pilih allah like.

  44. Attor Safar

    Attor Safar

    4 dagen geleden

    I have 0 friend. Can i be qualified?

  45. 15 Glorious Minutes

    15 Glorious Minutes

    4 dagen geleden

    2020 - in a nutshell

  46. Gau Xar

    Gau Xar

    4 dagen geleden

    Omg.

  47. Wai Phyo Oo

    Wai Phyo Oo

    4 dagen geleden

    So the reason why I don't have friends (BFFs) is because I don't have friends : ( That's sad 😢😢😢

  48. Bikram Kalsi

    Bikram Kalsi

    4 dagen geleden

    You guys don't know anything, your just fake intellectuals, you have no answers, I can make a better video with no budget then you can ever, stop with the optimistic nihilism, you have done it no justice, you have no right to speak those words, it has been more than six years that your channel is alive, and you have done nothing, in fact the world has gotten worse, you are just wasting oxygen, you fake intellectuals, cycling around the island of ignorance, when the ocean of knowledge is just beyond your horizon.

    • N. M.

      N. M.

      2 dagen geleden

      Then make a better video than them! Challenge: do it with iMovie. Let's see how good your video is. Please post it on your channel in a month, to keep the challenge fair between you and Kurtzgesagt.

  49. Jack Tomei

    Jack Tomei

    4 dagen geleden

    Curious how much our modern ability to collect and analyze data introduces bias to comparisons between modern and historical stats. Anyone have any resources to the bias introduced when comparing modern and historical stats while not controlling for the difference in data collection potentials? fiddling with the idea that the psychological feeling of loneliness may have always existed to the same extent but we didnt have the resources, intellect, or incentive to explore such things.

  50. Dhruv Gupta

    Dhruv Gupta

    4 dagen geleden

    9:16 true for me... actually everything for me is true in this vid..

  51. Derek Dawson

    Derek Dawson

    4 dagen geleden

    All my friends are gone in far away places only 1 is left and my class hates me lmao

  52. Charlie Mont

    Charlie Mont

    4 dagen geleden

    I've just become paranoid to the point where I believe everyone on this planet dislikes/hates me

    • Pronósticos Deportivos

      Pronósticos Deportivos

      Dag geleden

      Maybe because you're West Ham fan. 😎 (Just a joke) I miss Upton Park.

  53. X Luc

    X Luc

    5 dagen geleden

    So quarantine basically fucked up everything for me Before quarantine, I had a really chill friends group, school that kept me motivated, a job that was challenging (in a positive way) and above all else, the girl of my dreams was my girlfriend I did my finals this year, so I had to go to a new school for a new study. All good with me. Then we got to hear that all of our lessons would be online. It was really hard for me and I failed my tests. I noticed that this way of teaching (online) wasn't meant for me, so I decided to quit and focus on a new study. I am currently still looking for one. With a lot of time on my hands, I decided to spend some quality time with my girlfriend, whom I haven't seen for 2 weeks because of quarantine. A lot of people are just having a cold (it's autumn, so it has nothing to do with corona). I made a list of things I wanted to do with her as a surprise. I noticed she wasn't herself really, but I thought it was because we didn't see eachother for a while. We are both really emotionally attached. She woke me up by ringing the doorbell. She'd come over that day, but yet I was surprised. It was only 10am and she's be here at 1pm. Surprised I opened the door and there she stood. Tears on her cheeks and her eyes were red. She told me she couldn't handle it anymore. Her study was killing her, as well as not being able to see me that often. She felt like she was the only one fighting for everything our relationship stood for. If she only waited 1 more week.. Heartbroken I felt like emptiness was filling me. I knew I had to get my mind off of her, so I reached out to some of my best friends. We met in high school and we graduated together. All of them went to different schools and none of them had time. During the weekdays they were across the country, during the weekends they were with family and or working. The only thing left was my job. I started working more and more and decided I wanted to get higher up, but because of favoritism, I got denied and I barely have any hours For reference, I decided to quit school on 16 September. 26 September my now ex girlfriend broke up with me Everything I lived for is gone in just under 2 months. Who would have thought that the only thing I'd be feeling now, was the void left within me

  54. Ryan Wooten

    Ryan Wooten

    5 dagen geleden

    They should teach this stuff in school. Not algebra.

  55. Noelia Spinka

    Noelia Spinka

    5 dagen geleden

    Anyone wanna hold hands

    • FOREST GUMP

      FOREST GUMP

      2 dagen geleden

      What happened noelia.

  56. Dark Sigma

    Dark Sigma

    5 dagen geleden

    I moved to a city with a culture of "all foreigners are bad people" and im so lonely since 11 years ago, now im trying to lift off with some projects im doing. I´m 50 and feel kinda renewed just because discovered alcoholism and melancholy (i used to abuse alcohol every night since 7 years ago) comes from testosterone decreasing levels so started an aggresive training program helped me increase a little bit of testo (lifting, kickboxing, little cardio, better meals, avoid alcohol) Still have no parner or GF and probably this never will happen again but lets face it showing two middle fingers to life... I won´t take it seriously anymore Another horrible fact is religious cults are taking advantage of this sending quite atractive female missionaries to recruit you yeah they are attacking your SIMP flank... again take at least one middle finger and use it as a shield, be firm, use it as when you say to alcohol, no thanks im driving and even one beer is too much (thats a powerful sentence) So fellow males and females remember melancholy is due a decrease of testoterone so excercice can help you I love you all, come on, im sending you all a digital hug!!!

  57. Gowtham

    Gowtham

    5 dagen geleden

    Loneliness is worse when you give importance to your friends more than your relatives. Friendship is overrated sometimes.

  58. Gowtham

    Gowtham

    5 dagen geleden

    Never lose your job or money. That is even more worse than being lonely. Happening to me right now.

  59. bilbobagpipe

    bilbobagpipe

    5 dagen geleden

    Aaaghh I’m so lonely and I can’t do shit about it rn. I can’t freaking wait to go back to school when all this is over.

  60. Salvare

    Salvare

    5 dagen geleden

    God, why i always lonely ?? You won't let someone come and love me! Why did you created me? Let me die!

  61. Danny Kim

    Danny Kim

    5 dagen geleden

    Loneliness hits hard when you thought you have friends but realize they care more about things like their work or games than you when you're having a hard time in life, perhaps suicidal. Loneliness hits hard when I think people want me but ignore me constantly: online, reading other people's messages, but ignoring yours. Loneliness hits hard when people explicitly not wanting to "deal" with you. Loneliness hits hard when somebody says they care about you, sending you messages that they would be there for you whenever you ask and that you are worth a lot to many people, but never talk to you after that. Loneliness hits hard when you think you found love and a great job, but the job takes away your freedom making you stay occupied with work, becoming alone everyday: which has the secondary effect of distancing people from you because they think you think work is more important than them. Loneliness hits me hard when all of what I wrote happens to me simultaneously.

    • Anxiety Conquerors

      Anxiety Conquerors

      5 dagen geleden

      @Danny Kim Danny, happy to know it helped! I have had my worse struggles with past anxiety, and depression. Loneliness does come along as a package. Give yourself a period of time in making new and positive changes in your life. Once pandemic ends, you can be a man on a mission in improving your social life....and find the friends that deeply fulfil your emotional needs and most importantly, understand you. All the best!

    • Danny Kim

      Danny Kim

      5 dagen geleden

      @Anxiety Conquerors I really didn't expect anyone to care enough to give me a reply, and I will take your words to the heart. Thank you so much for replying to a random guy in a NLcameras comment section, you have no idea how much it means to me.

    • Anxiety Conquerors

      Anxiety Conquerors

      5 dagen geleden

      Danny, thank you for sharing. In my own way I have experienced the same loneliness. If it would help...in the bigger picture the loneliness experienced went away over time after allowing into my life a better group of friends that genuinely cared about my struggles. It even made the work days more joyful knowing I had a positive support network. But I had to go through a process of change to where I am today. Nothing worthwhile in this life is easy. I hope you are able to make positive changes in your life as I have and experience much less loneliness over time. Keep your head up and fighting the good fight.

  62. Jaroslaw Zaleski

    Jaroslaw Zaleski

    6 dagen geleden

    I knew I was fucked up

  63. Zaid Taosif Prottoy

    Zaid Taosif Prottoy

    6 dagen geleden

    I am lonely 😢

  64. WantedSavage777

    WantedSavage777

    6 dagen geleden

    Thats why we need human robots.

  65. Alien3.0C

    Alien3.0C

    6 dagen geleden

    Guess ill die

  66. Alien3.0C

    Alien3.0C

    6 dagen geleden

    NLcameras recommended this to me 😔

  67. Van B.

    Van B.

    6 dagen geleden

    So I'm lonely? I thought I'm not. I'm just making myself believe that I'm not lonely but in reality I'm doing what lonely people do. Wow I'm fucked up. Haha

  68. Angry-Moth-Noises

    Angry-Moth-Noises

    6 dagen geleden

    feeling really called out by this video. I dont trust or have friends because everytime it just ends badly.

  69. Satria Jannatan

    Satria Jannatan

    6 dagen geleden

    This is mariana trench deep

  70. BlueRanch

    BlueRanch

    6 dagen geleden

    I've never felt more lonely than after I graduated from University this year... I'm not sure if it's because I moved away from dorms or because of quarantine isolating me from whatever friends I have left... Perhaps it's both.

  71. Rand0m

    Rand0m

    6 dagen geleden

    I'm lonely... I have friends and stuff but I still feel empty and lonely

  72. HelloImNotaBot

    HelloImNotaBot

    6 dagen geleden

    Kurzgesagt: build a world around connecting COVID: Imma just say no

  73. Allex G

    Allex G

    6 dagen geleden

    We can all be lonely. And winners don't bitch about it.

  74. Waifu For Laifu

    Waifu For Laifu

    6 dagen geleden

    I have been starting to feel lonely lately. I dont think i have depression and I hope I dont reach that point. But I feel alone in a world with over 7 billion people. No one really understands me and the energy I put into being treasured by others isn't mutual. I sometimes tell myself that i should stop whining since I got the chance to experience life but yet, the beauty of life is missing for me. Even though I have a lot of things people would die for. But the story of my life seems so boring and pitiful. When I hear people talk about better times coming, I tell it to myself aswell. Acting each day as if im happy but beneath my "happy" face there are a lot of things people would never expect from me. I tell my loved ones I stay up all night because I like the night more than daytime, while in truth its because during the cover of the night I can be alone and truely be one with myself, retiring from acting. But my faith is slowly slipping away and I cant keep fooling myself anymore. In the end, it seems like everyone needs something different to be happy and mine is missing.

  75. _Julia_stawberry_

    _Julia_stawberry_

    6 dagen geleden

    I don't know anymore, I always friend with fake friend. Or either they are gonna leave me, I hate it. My online friends didn't talk to me for some reason, it's just so quite. I wanna talk to them but I feel like there is a voice say "No, don't do it. They will get annoyed."

  76. Briana Budgets

    Briana Budgets

    6 dagen geleden

    I’m here because Garrett Watts said he loves this video.

  77. GHØST 100

    GHØST 100

    6 dagen geleden

    bruh rip off of infographic show

  78. SoundStorm 14

    SoundStorm 14

    6 dagen geleden

    1:18 Are we just gonna ignore the fact that the woman is using a turbocharger to dry hair?

  79. Daniel Koo

    Daniel Koo

    6 dagen geleden

    One thing that doesn't make sense is if the feeling of loneliness was evolved by our body to increase our survivability in ancient times, why didn't it go away or in the process of going away--in fact, it's getting worse--when being alone is way less of a threat to our survival in modern societies? I think the video's theory of basing the onset of loneliness solely on biological survival needs is questionable.

  80. gravity

    gravity

    7 dagen geleden

    Can yall make a video bout type of personallity please

  81. Atif

    Atif

    7 dagen geleden

    Thank you!

  82. Batuhan Özçelik

    Batuhan Özçelik

    7 dagen geleden

    Bu kanallar okullardan daha çok şey öğretiyor

  83. Lettuce lettuce Cachoovie

    Lettuce lettuce Cachoovie

    7 dagen geleden

    Fact: A lot of people in the comments are lonely Also fact: Your important and appreciated:)

    • Steven Jimenez

      Steven Jimenez

      6 dagen geleden

      Life is just depressing

  84. TBK_brex

    TBK_brex

    7 dagen geleden

    To whoever is reading this, it’s gonna be okay. I know you can’t feel the weight I put behind those words but I say those words with my entire heart and soul behind them

  85. Blackflag

    Blackflag

    7 dagen geleden

    Loneliness and isolation is a recipe for breeding a mass killer or a suicide victim. Trust me I KNOW.

  86. Edward Hartonodiningrat

    Edward Hartonodiningrat

    7 dagen geleden

    I suffer from loneliness but im fine

  87. Mawlood

    Mawlood

    7 dagen geleden

    Just care about your relatives and you won’t feel lonely

  88. Hasioc

    Hasioc

    7 dagen geleden

    the problem for me is that im a very smart dude. like for real. when i was younger i scored 133 on a IQ test. And it is really hard to find someone who is on that high intelectual level when you are just in 8th grade. Im 14 by the way. So I often feel left out and people assume that im an introvert, only because I have different interests, like computers, astronomy, history. And people assueme that I am a weirdo because of that. Ugh

  89. 000ShadowHedgehog000

    000ShadowHedgehog000

    7 dagen geleden

    I think I forgot how to socialize and talk to other people.

    • Big woods

      Big woods

      3 dagen geleden

      Same Quarantine fucked me up

    • Steven Jimenez

      Steven Jimenez

      6 dagen geleden

      Life is life

  90. Sheila Mar Aurestila

    Sheila Mar Aurestila

    7 dagen geleden

    During this quarantine, I'm surrounded by my cats, they're the ones I play with, talk, eat together, might as well become one >¤

    • Gowtham

      Gowtham

      5 dagen geleden

      lol

  91. Sam Gonzales

    Sam Gonzales

    7 dagen geleden

    I had noticed that in many of the videos made by this channel mention evolutionary affects on animals and humans. However, as a Christian who doesn't believe in evolution, there is an explanation to loneliness. God created man to glorify Him and to subdue creation through the Creation Mandate. In order to do so, humans had to work together in communities to fulfill God's commands. Additionally, humans are not animals that evolved from a single cell. Man was designed differently, which is in God's own image. God gave man a self-conscious, rationality, language, emotions, and the ability to form relationships with others. Therefore, the feeling of loneliness was incorporated because it's crucial for man to fellowship with one another.

    • N. M.

      N. M.

      2 dagen geleden

      Basically, you arrived at the same conclusion as Kurtzgesagt using different views.

  92. Steve Finnegan

    Steve Finnegan

    7 dagen geleden

    1:13 is that britney? Isn't she lucky?

  93. FenriZz

    FenriZz

    7 dagen geleden

    90% who watch this feel lonely I'm also one of them

  94. uninteresting boyo

    uninteresting boyo

    7 dagen geleden

    I tried to open up my feelings to my best friend but every time I fucking say something she goes offline. I just don't want to be alone anymore. It's painful. I just want to feel like someone legitimately enjoys spending time with me and that they aren't doing it out of pity or to get something from me. I spent time with my best friend today to try to feel less lonely, but something happened and now I feel worse than before. She's not talking to me. Maybe I should just stop talking about my feelings then. Better than losing one of my only real friends. I hate that I feel like I'm in legitimate pain even though I'm just alone. This is bullshit. I don't want to be alone.

  95. fairymairah

    fairymairah

    7 dagen geleden

    I feel lonely.even when I live with other People !

  96. Craftmasy

    Craftmasy

    8 dagen geleden

    Who else is feeling lonely?

  97. Joacinhof3style

    Joacinhof3style

    8 dagen geleden

    This is very well done and I agree with a lot in it. One thing which came in mind is how it's sometimes worth it to stand up for yourself if you're genuinely not in the mood to hang out, but similarly you should stand up for yourself when you want to get something for you, like make new friends. Not with force, obviously, but that you actually do it.

  98. Sujit Krishna

    Sujit Krishna

    8 dagen geleden

    In India we can't never be lonely

  99. Shaikh

    Shaikh

    8 dagen geleden

    Came here to like this video

  100. marsya

    marsya

    8 dagen geleden

    this comment section is so relatable! please know that i'm willing to listen to anyone of you here, you can dm me on my insta account, you don't have to follow me ! i love you all a lot and just please stay strong :) insta : cripplerswag666

    • marsya

      marsya

      Dag geleden

      ji va 💀

    • ji va

      ji va

      4 dagen geleden

      R u a psychiatrist?😳

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